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Disagreement, its causes and etiquette
الخلاف أسبابه وآدابه
Author: عائض بن عبد الله القرني
About this work
هذا الكتاب "الخلاف أسبابه وآدابه" للمؤلف عائض القرني، يعد كتابًا من كتب الفكر الإسلامي الذي يهتم بدراسة أسباب الخلاف والآداب التي يجب اتباعها في التعامل معه. الكتاب يبدأ بتعريف الخلاف وبيان أهميته في الكون، ثم ينتقل إلى دراسة أسبابه، حيث يُعرّف الخطأ كبوابة الخلاف الرئيسة، ويستعرض أسبابًا أخرى قد تؤدي إلى الخلاف، مثل الحسد والبغض والتعصب. بعد ذلك، يُقدّم الكتاب آداب الخلاف، مثل الإخلاص والمتابعة والتمني للمخالف العودة إلى الطريق الصحيح، وسماع الحجة والرأي وإيراد الدليل، وهدوء الرد وذكر جوانب الاتفاق قبل الاختلاف. الكتاب يهدف إلى توفير أدوات للتعامل مع الخلاف بطريقة صحيحة، وتعزيز روح التعاون والتوافق في المجتمع.
Translation
This book, “Disagreement: Its Causes and Etiquette,” by the author Ayed Al-Qarni, is considered one of the books of Islamic thought that is concerned with studying the causes of disagreement and the etiquette that must be followed in dealing with it. The book begins by defining disagreement and explaining its importance in the universe, then moves on to studying its causes, where it defines error as the main gateway to disagreement, and reviews other causes that may lead to disagreement, such as envy, hatred, and fanaticism. After that, the book presents the etiquette of disagreement, such as sincerity, follow-up, wishing the dissenter to return to the right path, listening to argument and opinion, presenting evidence, being calm in responding, and mentioning aspects of agreement before disagreeing. The book aims to provide tools for dealing with disagreement in a correct manner, and enhancing the spirit of cooperation and consensus in society.
Topics covered
- the introduction
- The necessity of disagreement
- The reason for choosing the topic
- The error and its treatment method
- Firstly, the pre-error stage
- Secondly, the post-error stage
- Causes of disagreement
- Firstly, the error exists in the first place
- Secondly, oppression and aggression
- Third: envy
- Fourth: arrogance
- Fifth: Intolerance towards people and curricula
- Sixth: narrow-mindedness
- Seventh: corruption and weakness of perception
- Eighth: Obligating what is not necessary
- Ninth: The dominance of emotion over reason
- Tenth: Love of disagreement for its own sake
- Eleventh: Lack of certainty in words and actions
- Twelfth: cognitive and scientific imbalance
- Thirteenth: Following one’s desires
- Fourteenth: Spiritual disharmony and dissonance
- Disagreement etiquette
- First, sincerity and follow-up
- Secondly, wishing the violator to return to the right path
- Third, hearing the argument and opinion
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