Patience and Gratitude: The Two Wings of a Believer
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Human life only revolves between two situations: something he likes, or something he doesn't like. Islam provides provisions for both — gratitude for the first, patience for the second. That's why some scholars say: faith is two parts; half of it is patience, half of it is gratitude. Patience is not weak submission. In the Qur'an, patience always appears as an active force: patience in obedience - remaining istiqamah even though it is difficult; patiently refraining from immorality — the power of rejecting the haram; and patiently facing adversity — not being crushed by loss. Allah promises His companionship to patient people (QS Al-Baqarah: 153) and rewards without limit for them (QS Az-Zumar: 10). And true patience, said the Messenger of Allah, is at the first impact — a momentary reaction when bad news arrives. Gratitude is not just saying thank God. The scholars explain that gratitude works in three places: the heart which acknowledges that all blessings come from Allah, the tongue which praises Him, and the body parts which use these blessings for obedience. Grateful eyes are used to read the Koran; grateful treasures flow into alms; knowledge that is grateful to be taught. Allah promises: "If you are grateful, I will surely increase your favor" (QS Ibrahim: 7). Rasulullah shallallahu alaihi wa sallam summarized the two in one amazing saying: "Truly amazing is the affairs of a believer; all his affairs are good for him... if he receives blessings he is grateful, and if he encounters difficulties he is patient" (HR Muslim). There are no circumstances that harm a believer — as long as he knows which wing to wear. The practical exercises are simple. Every night, name three specific blessings of the day, then be thankful for them. And when difficulties come, hold your tongue for the first few minutes, say innaa lillaahi wa innaa ilaihi raaji'uun, and remember that no fatigue, pain, or sadness will befall a Muslim unless Allah erases his sins because of it. It is with these two wings that a believer flies through all the weather of life.